Ex has introduced kids to other woman.

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    TaniaL
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    My husband left 15months ago I had a feeling someone else was involved & it was confirmed 8 mths after he left. We haven’t spoke since he left the house, he didn’t see or speak to our daughters (7&5yrs old) for over 2 months when he left & has cut contact twice since then. They see him now 3 days a wk for 2 hrs & sleepover every other Sat.  He has started to bring the woman he left for down to meet them on the Sat night. I know it’s something I have to get used to but I just so angry I can’t control myself when the kids mention her, I hate her so much!! But I know it’s not healthy for my daughters or for me to feel this way!! How do I let it go? How do I react when they talk about her so I don’t show anger?. Side note he doesn’t provide for our kids but will take her kids out & pay for clothes, meals etc 😠

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    D2021
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    I’m in the same situation as you my husband cheated on me after 14 years with someone we both knew a lady he worked with who knew me and my kids knew my husband was married cut the story short he left and two days later he introduced my girls to her as his girlfriend and from then on the girls don’t like her because they knew she was mummy’s friend, he said nothing happened but within 9 month they moved in together and now he wants the girls to be with him but he works shifts and wants the new girlfriend to take that role to look after the kids which I’ve refused but now he is threatening court he won’t help me with the kids if they are sick or have hospital app he is too busy at work or at the gym I will never forgive someone like her who ruined my family and my kids know this so I can understand how angry and upset you feel.

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    D2021
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    I’m in the same situation as you my husband cheated on me after 14 years with someone we both knew a lady he worked with who knew me and my kids knew my husband was married cut the story short he left and two days later he introduced my girls to her as his girlfriend and from then on the girls don’t like her because they knew she was mummy’s friend, he said nothing happened but within 9 month they moved in together and now he wants the girls to be with him but he works shifts and wants the new girlfriend to take that role to look after the kids which I’ve refused but now he is threatening court he won’t help me with the kids if they are sick or have hospital app he is too busy at work or at the gym I will never forgive someone like her who ruined my family and my kids know this so I can understand how angry and upset you feel.

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