Split 2 years ago after finding out ex had been leading double life all way through marriage (3years) he was a transvestite and hooking up with other transvestites, hard core violent porn etc. I have always been main carer and he was emotionally abusive even Trying to pressure me To have group sex. I have grave concerns of children’s welfare and now he’s found out I’m pregnant with my partner and is going for 50/50 . Will he get it so scared for my children.
My ex said he was going for 50:50 as well. Until I pointed out that meant half the school runs and half the cooking and washing & ironing & helping with homework.
That it would require him to change job, change his way of life beyond recognition and cost him far more.
Think about the impact 50% care would have on your ex’s life. Do you really think he will make all the necessary sacrifices?