My ex and I have a very amicable relationship. Over the last few years as he got into another relationship his time with our son diminished a bit. He’s no longer in a relationship but my son only ever stays with him for 1 night every weekend. It makes it difficult for me to fit in everything I want to during my “time off”. I’m really grateful my ex is there at the end of the phone on FaceTime regularly with our son but wonder if I’m right to feel like an extra night here and there would be beneficial to all of us?
One night a weekend really isn’t enough. I’m going through similar with my ex. He only sees and has our daughter 2 nights at the weekend. And if he works one of those days he only has her from 7pm, she spends all day with me. I’ve told him recently that if he doesn’t make more of an effort to spend time with her, it’s going to have a negative impact on their relationship.