Hi, I’m having so much trouble with my controlling ex. We have a 2 year old son together who he rarely bothers with. We bought a house together but mortgage in his name. All furniture etc came from me as he had nothing and I also paid full deposit. He is now denying that I have any rights and won’t give me a penny from property. He is also refusing to let me get my belongings from the house, including Xmas tree and decorations which I have collected over 16 years. I have 3 kids living with me and he is on his own.
BTW, I left to live in extortionally priced rented house to get away from his as he was abusive. I am so worried about my future and the mess I’ve been left in 😥
Hi, I’ve been putting off going to CMS as been worrying how he will react. I’ve been doing everything I can to keep things calm and amicable for sake of son but he’s just destroying me. It’s so upsetting how he can just sit there on a house that I paid most towards with so much of mine and my kids stuff and not care. Have been to a solicitor and can get legal aid but then if I get some money I will have to pay that back which could be thousands 😫
Sorrh to hear this. My ex also tried to block me from collecting my belongings, although the house was in both our names. I called 101 (non urgent police), explained the situation and that he was abusive, and requested an officer go with me to collect my stuff. Also most solicitors give you first hour free so please utilise this. Good luck