Hi, I have 2 teenage children. My ex turned out to be a serial adulterer & gaslighted. Since he left, every month I am threatened financially by him if I do not agree to do what he wants. I am very tired of feeling so insecure on a monthly basis. I have conceded regularly to his demands but I have decided I no longer want to be bullied in this way. Now he has said he will reduce payments and subsequently stop them, the moment I attempted in a rational & polite way to stand up for myself. Is there any advice you could give me please. I would be really grateful as he left me with all the debts and all the financial problems.