Hi guys, I’ve just joined and looking for some advice 😩
me and my ex split up last March when he found out I was pregnant. Since then he started a new relationship and hadn’t got in touch to see how either of us were until my daughter was 6 weeks old (she’s now 14 weeks)
he’s sent emails basically saying he does not want to discuss the past as it’s not relevant and that he has rights and wants to meet his daughter.
I sent an email back saying we need to meet up and clear the air before we can move forward to co parent. Since then he’s sent emails saying I’m using our daughter as a weapon and he has every right to see her (I’ve not said he can’t) and taken to fb slandering me and using pics of our daughter 😓 I’ve now had a solicitors letter through stating that he’s tried to sort things amicably with me without success, he’s desperate to meet his daughter and initially it can be with me to elevate any concerns and then wants her one night a week and every other Sunday (the days that he doesn’t have his hobbies). He’s making me feel dreadful, I just want to do what’s right for my daughter and I’m being made to feel like I’m in the wrong? Please someone tell me I’m not going mad? 😓sorry for the long post! Haha xx