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    SamC1811
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    I am looking for some advice, my ex is saying it is up to me to drop off and pick up our son but I don’t think this is the case.  I have an injunction against him as he was emotionally abusive but I don’t see why I should be the one doing the running around??

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    steve3334
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    hi,

    whats the travel distance like?

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    warwickshire1
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    Hi sam ,  It is down to your ex partner to pick up and drop off your son. In situations where mum and dad are co-parenting then this is sometimes done by both by agreement

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    Gummibear123
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    Depends what’s in it for you.If there’s no legal thing you have to stick to you should be free to do what you like😉

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    SamC1811
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    It’s a 14 miles round trip and I am doing both but I don’t really want to be. As it’s costing me money and causing anxiety

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    steve3334
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    my kids live with their mum. I’m doing same 14 miles round trip to pick up and drop off. been doing it for 2 years so far. ex doesn’t drive. and she wouldn’t be interested in helping out.

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    warwickshire1
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    To try and avoid conflict maybe you could email / message and say you will do drop offs and pick ups until end of february so he will still be seeing children and is also pre-warned. March you would then no longer be doing any drop offs or pick ups and he will have to do them all.  You could do them from home or at a neutral place if not possible  i.e supermarket car park etc

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    warwickshire1
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    Whilst you asking your ex to do all drop off and pick ups it maybe on odd occasion that in future you still do a few now and again.

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