I’ve been separated from my babies dad for almost 4 months now his seen her id say 5 times since then. He has often let her down, been more interested in other stuff. He couldn’t even turn up to register her. I rearranged the appointment 3 times to suit him and he still couldn’t be bothered. He has the traits of a narcissist, he is like Jekyll and Hyde. My friends tell me I should cut him out of her life for good but I still give him the benefit of the doubt even after everything. I wish I didn’t because it would save so much pain and disappointment I just don’t know where to go from here.