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    BoredDaD
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    Im 35m, married 14 years 3 kids together, been thinking of leaving for a few years (stayed for the kids) not sure what to do for the best as i dont want to upset anyone and for them to resent me for tearing the family apart.

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    sirtobi
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    If bored dad is a giveaway, I can only say, I do really love an existential first world problem. With the path you are envisaging, you, your wife, your children might have to face some Third World issues in the near future, because, as most  of us here know, splitting up a family leads to a plethora of wealth and happiness. Good luck.

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    AnotherStatistic
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    What are your reasons? Unless they are really significant (e.g being betrayed) I’d suggest exhausting every possible option to make your marriage work. The pain of separation for all involved is hard to imagine. You really wouldn’t want to make such a momentus decision and come to regret it in future.

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    steve3334
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    agree with previous poster. please try to make it work. can try couples/marriage counselling.

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    BoredDaD
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    We tried marriage counselling a few years ago, as wife didnt want another person in our marriage and i suffer from extreme anxiety, so we decided to try online mc instead, we tried everything that was suggested but as soon as we was alone everything went back to how it always was. We were then told that if we was going to stay married we needed to make a go of it on our own and see what happens. Bjt things just seem to revert back to the way it always has been, nothing changes

     

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