I’m not sure if anyone can relate but if you could id be grateful of some advise and guidance.
I’m a single mother living in England but from Ireland.
I was in an emotionally abusive relationship for 4 years (which I didn’t realize until i left).
Since leaving (18 months ago) it has all gotten worse and he uses our daughter to do it and get to me.
Hes trapped me in England, and ill have to pay 15.000£ to go to court to try and gain permission to move back home which i so desperately want and need.
all my fmaily are in ireland, its home, he knows ive always wanted to go home and now hes using my daughter to stop it..
hes just taken me through for for access rights and set visits (in which i had already given him) and whilst there accused me of child abuse, neglect and being at risk to my daughter as of my mental health. (i’ve got anxiety, and unknown to him, i now have depression.) which is getting so much worse.
i’m really struggling to cope. I’ve had suicidal thoughts. I’m at a complete loss and have very little support in the community.
has anyone else been in this situation or a similar situation that can advise the best route?
because i don’t know how much longer i can cope living this life under his control, his watch and being petrified and scared and living constantly anxious and depressed because of everything. i’m an absolute shell of the person i was.