Hi I hope everyone is keeping well in this crazy year!
I will try and keep this short and not ramble. My son is 19 months old. His dad started making an effort a few months ago and in the last month has been really good. He took my son out today – he cried the minute he saw him then when he’s gone he has a lovely time with his dad no tears the minute he sees me again he cries so much and clings on to me for dear life.
I know he’s not upset when he’s out with his dad as he sends me lots of pictures which I’m thankful for and he tells me he doesn’t although we have had our differences I believe him he has no reason to lie.
Is there anything I can do to stop these real upsets s there not nice for any 3 of us. His dad works shifts so can only really see him the once a week, as a rule, we tried the hour at a time a few months back but it wasn’t really working I also feel if I say ok I will come out with you both the 2 of them will never bond.
Any ideas?