It’s a strange set up , divorced from a narcissist husband after 22 years . 2 teenagers living with me . Have a new guy now but the youdest refuses to see him or includes him . The ex comes in n out of our lives when he’s busy or not just turning up at the house . Which in fair I use his building skills to fix the odd jobs that crop up as the new guy can’t change a light bulb . Cant go on like this feel like I’m leading a secret double life just so I get my maintenance and knowing my daughter won t accept a new guy . Any advise please