Divorce, children's future finances tips welcome

[Iwanttobeme]

I am back after 6mths of not being here.and alot of sole searching ive started divorce proceeding pver my husband.

What my m keep sauing is alongsode the money he give me for the children I can claom for big purchases like uniform, trips etc for the children. Is that correct?

Also can the solicitor insure the money thst i am get goes in on the same.dates as i have asled to ask for it more times then i care to mention.

If he buys something for the choldren and he dpes provide proof sbpuld i gove hum what he says is half? *i said id do it to be far as they needed it and i didnt have the spare cash

Sny other tips for what.to ask thr solictor for would be AMAZING

Thankyou in advance xx

 

[Iwanttobeme]

I dont have an issue reimbursing him as it qas my suggestion however i do have an issue as i have fpund the same item cheaper then the ammounr he says i owe and i hsve no proof of what it cost. There lies the issue.

He also said hes help toward the coat of a trip which never happend which at the time i was left sgorf as he left us with not a penny to our names apart from a part time wage.

Till now we’ve done it purselfs but its been a battle and getting fed up of having to ask for the money and hum suggestiong it gets reduced for any additional costs *such as this item hes bought!!!!!

[Iwanttobeme]

This cost of the trip happened just after he left and hes only recently agreed the odea of going halfs fpr future bigger costs sih as this and the passports that are needed for both of them soon. (This benifits us both anyway in the long run).

I think the idea regarding a recipt is a very good one i will suggest that to him. Though i did ask for onw wheb he bpught somehing else and he aid i was being ridiculous as it was second hand he didbt have one. But going forward this is going to have to happen to be faor go each other.

 

Thankyou for your help x

[Iwanttobeme]

No i only have money for the kids

[Iwanttobeme]

Thanlyou i didnt even no that waz eveb a thing i will mention when i go and see the sociltor next week.

X

 

 

[Thesmallfrog]

I’m new to this as well.

My ex has offered a more than generous about (maybe guilt driven at the mo) I’m planning to get it in writing but I know it’ll count for nothing if he decides not to pay.

From a spousal maintance point of view does he have to provide for me? Again I’ve brought up our children and work part time and He has a well paid job. It’s not now I’m worried about but later when he realises that he can’t have everything his own way.

[Iwanttobeme]

I didnt even realise it was a thing.  But i am also worried it will become an issue for him.

 

[Iwanttobeme]

didnt even realise it was even a thung till you stated.

And since hes been very amibcable now ive said im arranging the divorce, it will shock him is all.

BUT ill take it as im enttitled to it xxx  

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