Hi, I have a very difficult ex who did not take our split well. We have been splitting our time in the family home over the last year and this gives us both time with the children. I am now moving into my new place with our 2 boys.
My ex is intent on making my life as difficult as possible. He refuses to find a suitable property for him to have the children. He has stated that he won’t be having our eldest son (14) over night, EVER! He will have our youngest (11) for 3 nights. 1 night at his place which is a house he shares with a friend and the other 2 nights with his new partner who I have never met and doesn’t live in the area.
This arrangement is totally unsuitable as it will no doubt cause the eldest to feel rejected and the youngest to be unsettled going from pillar to post. He is using this as a way of controlling me and making sure I can never have a social life.
What sort of say do I have in this situation? He refuses to sit and talk with me about it.
TIA