Hi all,
I’ve never posted but would be interested to know if people have had a similar experience. My ex-husband walked out last year and had a mistress hidden away. My child goes to his house every other weekend. Initially, my child had no issue with my ex’s girl friend. However, they have come home this weekend and said that since the said girlfriend has moved in with her Dad, she isn’t being very nice, bossing them about, dictating what she can and cannot eat and generally a bit rude towards them. I have encouraged my child to speak to their father about this but they feel they cannot and do not want to go to their fathers. I don’t feel I can get involved which is hard because my child is upset by this woman. They don’t want me to say anything to anyone as they feel dad will just take his girlfriends side and be angry with them. How have others dealt with similar situations?