Hi Nic,
Well done for getting out. With someone like that, just finding the energy to leave is hard enough.
I know it’s tough but don’t listen to his views on your ex or anything else. He’s just showing what a lowlife he is. His opinion counts for absolutely nothing. You’re worth 20 of him.
He wants to upset you, to maintain his control, so don’t react, don’t rise, don’t give him the satisfaction. Do “Grey Rock” on him.
Why care if he lies to you, it doesn’t matter any more. He is someone else’s problem. You are FREE to build a happy life for you & your kids.
Treat yourself to something lovely this weekend, even if it’s just icecreams in the park. 💐