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    oneparent
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    Why does it feel some times easier to give up. Even though it year down line she still be controlling. Apparently asking for addiontal time over school holiday is not allowed I get replied “ain’t I allowed spend time with then”. The mother hasn’t made no attempt from start to come sort reasonable agreement it’s done on her terms. Now its seems CAFCASS are accepting as status quo but we all know they would throw book st me if the table were turned.

    #52319 Report

    steve3334
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    hi,

    what arrangements do you have with seeing your kids?

    #52320 Report

    oneparent
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    At the moment I have

    Wednesday 3-630pm

    Friday til Sunday every other weekend.

    I did have them every Sunday as this was basis of the first court order,which she has since stopped.

    She created this to be norm and cafcass are accepting it . I’m waiting on reply from my solisctor as they spoke to the children at the mother house, I thought the they have to speak to children in neutral place.

    Thank you for your reply

    #52323 Report

    steve3334
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    court like giving fri-sun every other weekend. how old are the kids? if they are nursery/school age you could ask for more time with them if you can be flexible with work, like fri-mon drop to school every other week, mid-week overnight.

    #52325 Report

    oneparent
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    Well at first hearing she made false accusations which where never founded in safeguarding reports so only going by her words. Even thought she stopped contact complete for first 5 months until I applied to court at her request then she offered Sunday then for 4 months she said no to over nights as the police checks ain’t came back then 3 days before christmas she let’s me have them Friday til Sunday without the checks she wanted firstly never came back. All my four kids are 6 and under . The courts and solicitor said they can’t strong hold her into anything as they ain’t got powers to do until section 7 report comes back if I remember right .

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