I am in the same boat, for me I think its because its likely hll only get supervised access… safeguarding and hed rather say I dont let him see her than admit his parenting and abusive behaviour leads much to be desired… are there any other family members you can maintain contact with and maybe they can shed some light on this…
its so hard on child but Ive been advised to avoid blaming him for not seeing her, he needs to get things sorted not he doesnt want to see you… hard when LO not yet 3
i feel your sadness too and my ex was a monster…. but his LO loves him and needs a safe relationship with him
Thank you . It does get you down . Not in contact with none of his family . I do get blamed off children for leaving and them not being able to visit but it’s out of my hands he has to get well I suppose . Being a mum is a thank less task I tend to think . They will understand one day . I hope .