Hi I’m new so bear with me my ex husband want to see our daughter during this lockdown however he is living with his mam and stepdad who are over 70 and have health conditions he is also going out in his car to meet up with his new girlfriend do you think I should let him see her take her for a walk even or just keep her safe with me as she has been for 3 weeks
I feel I’m suffering the same dilemma. I have my son for a few days and his went out and met friends shes not seen in weeks and I need to think about keeping my son for a few weeks to keep his safe. It’s a difficult decision but you need to put your kids ahead of everything. It seems your kids dad is really putting his and his family life at risk. Protect your kids.
I agree. I have the same issue as my ex is still seeing his girlfriend who doesn’t live with him, & his elderly mother, who also doesn’t live with him. He’s also a key worker. The kids are with me full time for the time being, & as I have a chronic lung disease we’ve been isolating for 3 weeks. I’d said he could see the kids for walks outside at a safe distance but he’s not observing the distancing, & not taking it seriously at all. So now my v sensible kids are wary about seeing him & he’s kicking off. Ultimately you have to do what’s safest for your kids – for me that’s keeping them & me alive by us staying at home. Sounds like it’s the same for you, & you’re also thinking of his parents too. If your ex hasn’t got the common sense to see that, then that’s his problem. If we all do the right thing now, hopefully we’ll get back to normality sooner rather than later. Stay strong xx
It gets better found out today he is living between 3 houses his mams and step dads his biological dads and his girlfriends and he is wanting me to rink my daughters life coz he can’t abide by the rules ??? Idiot