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    Hi this is all very new to me.

    So would love to hear your views and but most of all advise please.

    My name is Paul I have stunning twin girls. And a Hanson son age 11. Sadly after 20 years together and 11 of them married my wife wants to separate. this came about, 3 weeks ago when I came home and asked if everything is ok she says no I’m not happy and haven’t been for a long time. WOW my whole body went as cold as ice I was not expecting that as we haven’t argued for blinking ages the odd bicker pick your towel up usual habbits us men have. I have never said no to her if there’s something she’s wanted weather it be a night out with the girls to holidays with friends. Things in general. I suffered nerve damage to my back 8 years ago and now have to take controlled drugs for pain and nervous system. She is ment to be my career. I still live in the same house but she just completely ignores me like I’ve ever existed the kids sit in there room I sit in the garden most of the time so everyone’s  avoiding one another and finding it so difficult to accept apart from mum who don’t acknowledge me even when I ask if she would like tea along with everyone else. In the past I suffered depression and still  under the doctor for this. I need to find my own place but worried I won’t be able to find suitable accommodation.

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    First things first: call dwp and state she’s no longer carer.

    Speak to your gp.

    Who provides the childcare for the children and looks after them most?

    why is it your responsibility to move out?

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