So would love to hear your views and but most of all advise please.
My name is Paul I have stunning twin girls. And a Hanson son age 11. Sadly after 20 years together and 11 of them married my wife wants to separate. this came about, 3 weeks ago when I came home and asked if everything is ok she says no I’m not happy and haven’t been for a long time. WOW my whole body went as cold as ice I was not expecting that as we haven’t argued for blinking ages the odd bicker pick your towel up usual habbits us men have. I have never said no to her if there’s something she’s wanted weather it be a night out with the girls to holidays with friends. Things in general. I suffered nerve damage to my back 8 years ago and now have to take controlled drugs for pain and nervous system. She is ment to be my career. I still live in the same house but she just completely ignores me like I’ve ever existed the kids sit in there room I sit in the garden most of the time so everyone’s avoiding one another and finding it so difficult to accept apart from mum who don’t acknowledge me even when I ask if she would like tea along with everyone else. In the past I suffered depression and still under the doctor for this. I need to find my own place but worried I won’t be able to find suitable accommodation.