hope this might help you somehow you might be in same situation as I was..
felt pregnant, left ex as he struggled with my pregnancy and I was left just as outsider I wasn’t allowed to feel even sick or anything anyway long short story all my fault so apparently.
he said he would be interested in my daughter s life after I gave birth let him to come and see her. He sent me congratulation texts and saying he’s not coming to see her..
so contacted Child maintenance options as I was told by Health visitor and went through them, ex denied being a father in fact he said he’s not father and he could prove he’s not father and he had no problem to pay for DNA. I completely agreed to it as there was nothing to hide so if he can afford that he can afford child maintenance for his child I suppose anyway. Well embarrassing but only for himself. Narcissistic person never can love anyone else part of himself. His loss
it took all together 5 months, but once DNA test was sorted all went pretty quick we had DNA on Tuesday he had DNA week before us and in 2days we had results obviously proving he’s father…
now Csa chasing him to make a payments
so good luck to all who has to go through same situation and looking some more help or informations