I don’t know where to start really. The CSA see things as black & White.
There is no where to go if you don’t agree with how much they are making you pay & in some cases you shouldn’t have to!
I left my ex because he physically assaulted me and would at times do it in front of the children @ times. I took both my boys with me.
So 6 years on and within that time my youngest would get aggressive with me until I had enough and I said you can go and live with your dad. His dad whom is financially well off compared to my income is being evil and has gone to the CSA and now they are making me pay him and I can hardly afford to live.
I have been to CAB & they say I have no choice.
This is just a government money making scheme with no choice but to pay. No wonder mums & dads are driven to suicide.