Thankyou for taking time to reply. The eldest 3 go to there dad’s on a sat night, there 16 and twins at 14years, they try there best with baby but he’s so demanding, he’s not sleeping threw day 10mins and then wide awake so I don’t catch up on sleep during day (yet), hes such an alert baby as the health v says. Hes awake every 3hours during night aswell, im bottle feeding. babys dad doesn’t want to no, feel very let down but it was an abusive relationship mentaly and if babies dad can’t see me as well he doesn’t want to no. Hopefully things will change soon many thanks x