Hi,
I’m new here so first of all hi!
I’m after advice before I leave my relationship. We’ve been together 6 years and share a 3yr old daughter. My partner also has a child from a previous relationship who he sees only on alternate weekends with extra in the school holidays. I know he will fight me for 50/50 custody because he did with his older child and he feels hes missed out so much on his upbringing. Hes about to go to university so he will have a lot more free time and what’s stopping me from leaving is that I’m scared of how he will react, but also just terrified of ending up with 50/50 custody. I’m not unreasonable, he really is a useless father and I have concerns for our daughters safety if she were to live with him, aswell as the fact that he simply wont parent her in any way shape or form. I’ve been a full time mum since she was born with him working full time so that’s our usual arrangement.
But what is the likelihood that we’ll end up in a shared arrangement?