He’s done loads and now he’s not allowed to my house or to phone or message me, i was having 20 + a day, it’s better but i know he’s never going to let me go. I’m not scared of him anymore just wish he’d get a life and let me live mine or failing that get run over by a bus.
It is better when there is zero contact. I used to dread getting messages as they would bring me down so much. I think the email approach is much better. Can I ask when you were waiting for arrangements to be put in place did he still have your kids or did you keep them with you ? Also was he awkward when he realised you were getting things legal?