Christmas costs and ex

[Iwanttobeme]

My ex has got a gf who hes moving in soon *though this has been mentioned b4 and not happened.

They have recently decussed with our children what theyd like to do with them for Christmas.

Now the thing theyve suggeted os giong shopping and buting what they ask for whoch of cpurse cant happen for me sonce i have them ma5jproty of the time and i biy them wvedything they need with a part tiem incone comming in.

They both have said that hes buying them to make then happy bit o cant do the same and it makes me fedl loke i cant gove them what they want

😢

[Iwanttobeme]

The difficulty i have with the little things is there teenagers  who want expensive items and who only seem to be happy if they got what they want *or think they want and i give them what they need no questions its just done.

Thry do no what hes doing they’ve both said it after the recent visit 😕

[Iwanttobeme]

Yes thus is the first chirstams sicne thikb the suggestion came form his girlfriend rather than him if im honest not bot sure how sharing the costs would work but will suggest it to him.

 

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