We have a Family Agreement so no Court Orders involved.
But now my Ex is leaving her Mental Hospital and found a two bed place. The children (resident with me) say they do not want to spend time alone with my EX. They are 11 and 13 (m&F).
I am happy to respect their decision as after an absence of 6 years it will take time to get to know their other parent that at present is letters, phone calls and a supervised meeting during a day each holiday.
I am advised by a Mental Health Charity that it would be unwise to allow unsupervised contact given the mental condition and still being Sectioned.
Can you involve other members of her family, for example have an aunt take them all for a welcome home meal, or take them shopping to choose something for her flat.
Involving wider family and gradually building up contact, as Anonymous says. Maybe set up a FaceTime session or two, even if it’s only 5 minutes. Help your dcs to think of things they can talk about or show her, in the first one, just to break the ice. Maybe share some photos.
it’s in your dcs’ future interests to have a stable mum, so doing a little now to help her find her feet would be kind and worth it in the long run.
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