Hi I seperate from kids dad year and half ago, recently just moved in with new partner which I understand for some it’s too soon. Anyway my 10 year old openly said if she could split me and new partner up she would get old life back her dad sends abusive messages to me about how I’m a bad mum calls me unstable amongst other insults he threatens to keep the kids and these threats come up every few weeks aparentlap kids don’t play up for him or have issues at his house it’s just mine now I don’t know am I a bad mum or am I being played. I have depression and anxiety also and could be overthinking I don’t have anyone I can speak to as I just end up taking grief from others