Hi all.
I’m separated from my wife. Have an 8 year old boy and we share custody.
Recently her new partner has sent me a threatening text. I now do not wish to have contact with him (new partner) so am not keen on our child seeing me tense around drop offs and pick ups. I have no confidence that the threats will not happen when my child is there either.
Wife insists I do at least one drop off or pick up a week. She will not tell me if new partner is there or not. Says I have no right to know.
I have offered to sit down and talk to resolve issues , offered to exchange at a neutral venue or to arrange third parties do it. She has refused all this.
Now she wants to go to mediation about this (ironically it’s the only issue we have) and then court where she wants to get an order that I must go to her house.
Any thoughts? I think two reasonable people should be able to sort this one out but losing faith in that now!