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    Hello 🙂


    Wondering if anyone can help or has been through the same situation before…


    Me and my children’s dad split up in march..  he has been seeing the children on a Wednesday evening here at my flat and I go out because we don’t really get on .. he also then sees the eldest on a Sunday from around 12-5 .. and sometimes has been in the flat if he hasn’t had a car to take him out. This hasn’t been working though because there is always some drama or stress caused when he’s here at mine and I’m out.. I have said to him going forward I don’t want him coming into my home anymore ( he’s not on the tenancy) and he can still see the children but will have to take them out..  (to the park.. pub for dinner..  family’s house or whatever he wants) but he’s kicking off because he cant see any issue.. he gets very verbally abusive towards me and i just don’t know what to do next..  I have emailed someone about mediation but in all honesty I don’t think he will want to even entertain that. Has anyone been in a similar situation? Or know exactly where I stand with this..  also just to note his response to me was that he can’t see the children then if he cant come to the flat as he has a dog who he needs to sort out as well as not being able to just “take the kids out for a couple of hours” but there are things he can do with them in my eyes and he should be jumping at the chance to spend time with the children?


    Any advise would be great!


    Thank you x




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