Child Access order complete ex dictating/ control holidays and weekends

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    Bettycare
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    Hello I have been through the courts, order child access  is finalised. Shared equal holidays  and alternate weekends.  For the last 6 month I have recieved 5 different full year rotas contradicting them self’s.. Ontop of saying I gave him a years rota which is untrue.

    There are issues of control.

    Every turn I have shared holidays now my ex has decided via communication his is no longer discussing the years rota and to stick by for the whole year indefinately which hasn’t been agreed yet?

    I’m shut down

    My ex is using his rota to suit his needs splitting 2 and half week holiday into 4 with 3 contacts.

    I suggested 3 splits and 2 contacts due court stating only one contact in week.

    Can a parent dictate and say follow this and no more dissucsion for the rest of the year with his own agenda and not putting the needs of the children first.

     

    There is so much dictation, control, what do I do and not putting the needs of the children first

     

     

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    steve3334
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    Hi,

    I would advise if you can’t agree, then fall back to what the court order states. if it becomes such an issue you can try mediation, or go back to court as a last resort.

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