Hey everyone, 8 months ago my fiancé left me and our two children. He said that our relationship was a sham and he couldn’t do it anymore. He threw me and the kids out and spent about 3 months behaving like an 18 year old. He didn’t see the kids for 4 months and even missed our daughters birthday. He then turned up saying that he was sorry, he did still love me and wanted to work on things. But he still kept getting with other women, would go 6-8 weeks without seeing the kids and his behaviour just got worse and worse. I love him so much it hurts but last week after yet another argument over how he was treating me I said that I couldn’t take any more and had to walk away. I guess I was hoping he would realise what he’s done and actually fight for me. Well last night I found out from his dad that he has a new girl in his life and ‘wants nothing more to do with me because all I do is argue’ (the fact that I’ve had no money from him, he’s neglected the kids and been beyond horrible to me). I’ve just completely fallen to pieces. How has the man that I loved, had two kids with and was planning a wedding with gone from two weeks ago telling me he still loved me and wanted us to work to today having a new woman. I just can’t stop thinking about them together and feel sick. I’m so sad and beyond heartbroken I just don’t know how I’ll ever stop feeling like this. Sorry for the long message!
Just to let you know, you are not alone, my husband walked out on me and his two children last week to be with his mistress who is young enough to be his daughter after a year of yo yo ing back and fourth between me and her.
I can’t stop thinking of them being together either and what angers me is how she played mind games with him to get him to go back to her and he went running with no thought or consideration towards me or his children
Hello, I’m so sorry to hear that you’re going through the same. I wouldn’t wish this on my worst enemy! I’m just plagued by the thoughts of him loving someone else. I really did believe that we would get back together. We’ve been together since we were 17 so I don’t know anything other than life with him! Trying to stay strong for the kids and pick myself up but god it’s hard! Sending you big hugs x