Can’t do this anymore

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    Louise
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    Am I not alone in thinking I just can’t do this anymore? It’s been over 3 years since my ex walked out and I’ve had 3 years of stress upset heartache devastation etc etc for me and our 2 kids and I’m at the point of wanting to run away I just can’t see a way out of this unhappiness.  My ex lives a stones throw away with his ‘new’ family right under my nose and sees our kids when it suits his social life has NO responsibility for them and splashes the cash doing all the nice things when I get all the crap.  I’ve had enough 😢

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    Loopyloo
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    Oh no! Sounds like your going through a tuff time! But you know your already so strong by getting through the last 3 years of hell!

    Have you thought about moving, even a few roads over so your away from your ex?

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    Louise
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    I have over and over but the kids desperately want to stay in their home and my family are around me here but I’m so torn as it is so difficult when In my face he’s living his best life and spending more time with someone else’s kids

     

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    Westernchampion
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    I can sympathise with the moving issue. It’s tough. He may be putting on a show for you but in reality the grass isn’t always greener.  You shouldn’t waste time thinking about him. It’s a shame he spends more time with his step kids too but that’s unavoidable and having been on both sides its not easy as  parents but we’ve got to get on with it the best we can.  Give yourself  credit for a job well done.

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