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    Andy
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    I’ve recently come out of a relationship on the 27th Dec because I found out my ex had faked a pregnancy, and faked a miscarriage, watched me grieve from September when it happened, and then on 8th Nov said she received an anonymous call saying I was cheating. I did a lie detector that proved I hadn’t. But from the 8th for 7 weeks she put me through mental and emotional abuse to the point I tried to end my life twice. On the 27th dec I found put the whole truth that the call was a plan with her mates to get rid of me, and she faked the pregnancy etc. The police are involved but they’ve told me what she has done to me isn’t a crime, she is facing harassment and malicious messages charges, but the abuse and faked pregnancy isn’t a crime.

    My mental health is recovering day by day, and my two kids are my heroes, but the loneliness  sadness, memories are all hitting me hard today. But I don’t know what to do or how to get my head around it.

    I don’t understand how anyone could do that to another person??

    #64914 Report

    Surreyman
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    Best thing to do is not try to understand her,  accept she did it, forgive her, and move on. Focus on you, hit those pads, find a hobbie, make new friends, and don’t try to work it out, it will only make you tired. I know its easier said than done, but stay focused and stay strong,  your get there mate

    #64917 Report

    Andy
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    It the thought I was going to be a dad again, and I was so excited etc, then to find it was all faked, really plummeted my mental health cos I can’t get my head around the child part etc, if that makes sense.

    I love kickboxing and I am doing that. And I’m at the gym everyday.

    #64918 Report

    Surreyman
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    Yeah the exercise will make you feel alot better, meet someone else and then in future you can be Dad, you still have that time ahead of you 🙂

    In the meantime make the most of the gym while you can haha

    #64921 Report

    Andy
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    Thank you for you’re support my friend, and I am doing my best with it all. Just mind blowing ya know

    #64924 Report

    Surreyman
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    Understandable though,  but you got this mate. Here if you want a chat or smash some pads sometime

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