I’ve recently come out of a relationship on the 27th Dec because I found out my ex had faked a pregnancy, and faked a miscarriage, watched me grieve from September when it happened, and then on 8th Nov said she received an anonymous call saying I was cheating. I did a lie detector that proved I hadn’t. But from the 8th for 7 weeks she put me through mental and emotional abuse to the point I tried to end my life twice. On the 27th dec I found put the whole truth that the call was a plan with her mates to get rid of me, and she faked the pregnancy etc. The police are involved but they’ve told me what she has done to me isn’t a crime, she is facing harassment and malicious messages charges, but the abuse and faked pregnancy isn’t a crime.
My mental health is recovering day by day, and my two kids are my heroes, but the loneliness sadness, memories are all hitting me hard today. But I don’t know what to do or how to get my head around it.
I don’t understand how anyone could do that to another person??
Best thing to do is not try to understand her, accept she did it, forgive her, and move on. Focus on you, hit those pads, find a hobbie, make new friends, and don’t try to work it out, it will only make you tired. I know its easier said than done, but stay focused and stay strong, your get there mate
It the thought I was going to be a dad again, and I was so excited etc, then to find it was all faked, really plummeted my mental health cos I can’t get my head around the child part etc, if that makes sense.
I love kickboxing and I am doing that. And I’m at the gym everyday.
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