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    Hello all,

    I have come here being quite new to single parent life in the hope I a get off my chest the things bothering me as no one here to support or help me with advice at home.

    my ex left in June 29th after our relationship broke down to minimal communication apparently, telling an old friend that he’d had an affair after deciding our relationship was over but negating to tell me apparently I shouldn’t be telling people that he had an affair.  It ended at the beginning of lockdown and he says it was approx 12 months but not sure! Anyway, he’s gone after losing his job at the same time as the woman who he had an affair with he got a new job, this came with a sizeable welcome bonus in year one as a lump sum and then in the second year over 12 months. This he isn’t including in his maintenance calculation as he says it’s his and nothing to do with the kids. I cannot seem to get answers on whether or not he is paying what he should, has anyone had luck getting actual answers from anywhere about what is taken into account in these calculations as he basically wants to pay me as little as he can get away with.

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    GingerbreadHelen
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    Hi vic, I think this is something our helpline could advise you on. Helpline – Gingerbread.

    We also have a live webchat on Mondays. Tuesdays and Wednesdays Webchat – Gingerbread

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