Can you find out what contact, other than what he already has, he is wanting? That’s always a good start and it will show court that you are willing to discuss this situation over with him and poss resolve before he feels the need to drag you to court. This does not mean you have to bend over backwards to give him whatever he wants and the courts would not expect you to do that but if there is anything more you can offer him in the way of contact that does not compromise the safety of the children, even if he refuses it, it will benefit your case. I would say from this point on keep ALL communications regarding him seeing the children in email form only. This will be evidence to show that you have tried to sort this out before ending up in court. xx