Being civil with the ex

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    Thereislight
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    I’ll apologise in advance, having a rough day it’s my birthday tomorrow and I’ve just walked through the door and the ex has posted 4 (yes 4 !) cards to the 2 children but signed them from him and the woman he had an affair with and then the 4 children they have now got together. This was a woman who was a family friend. He had 2 children before I met him and I helped bring them up for 6 years. I just want to scream. Every time it feels like he’s rubbing it in my face. I’ve tried to ‘be the better person’ but he seems to think that is a green light to continue until I say something. How does everyone manage?

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    mstime
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    Erm…maybe better off not engaging with the games but then again i dont fully know the circumstances. Ive always found that not engaging helps however i realise that  may be different for you. Have you thought of ignoring the cards? Thats just my way and realise it may not be yours. Disengage, ignore call it what you will. The games are done. Bye Bye .

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    Ramblinjon
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    Mstime is right, I’ve seen folk here talk of going ‘grey rock’ in similar situations so that might be worth Googling for.

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