Hi, I’ve just joined this site I’m going through an extremely messy and bitter divorce. My husband was abusive towards me and then my 2 sons so I took control to protect myself. I obtained some court orders which did not go down well. I’m a very strong woman and will continue to be so I can get through this with my sons. I looking forward to a new breathe of life once it’s all over and that’s what keeps me going. Through adversity you learn and grow and can’t always see but there’s a blessing behind all this. This all happened fast and is very tragic in a way but I’m feeling happy. Never give up hope, take this opportunity to learn about what you want in life, analyse your goals and just go for it.