Hi Pammela
My name is Sandra and I am one of the moderators. This is a public forum so we cannot guarantee any recommendations made. I would suggest you look for a registered babysitting service, so you know the person is properly vetted, has had references checked etc.
I would hope no-one would approach you directly and offer to look after your children, but as this is a public forum we cannot prevent that.
Do please make sure you check and verify anyone. It may be that other single parents can recommend an agency that they have used. I think I used Sitters many years ago – and I hope you find someone suitable
best wishes
Sandra