so last week was my 11 month olds first night away from me to spend with her dad. I dropped her off, and hour later his gf arrives to stay the weekend. What am I meant to think? I feel betrayed and disgusted I wasn’t told, especially first night should be calm and settling for baby not a stranger about?
I wouldn’t be happy with that at all either. You need to speak to your ex and find who she is and things about her. I’d be worried he could leave baby alone with her, was she safe and capable. Worryingly you never know these days.
I’d leave the overnights till baby is older. Speak to your health visitor for some advice.