So I have a 19month old daughter, I met her dad in Malaysia whilst travelling and were together for about 5 years. As much as I love my daughter and have no regrets she wasn’t planned and actually was planning on leaving her dad and returning home to England before finding out I was pregnant.
I tried to make it work for a year with him. He came over last year for 6months and I went there for 2 months. Then leaving him at the airport was the hardest thing seeing his face and feeling so sorry for him so I told myself I will make it work somehow even if I’m not in love anymore I just can’t do this to him. But as time has gone and covid happened I realised I can’t be with someone if I’m not in love just Coz we have a child.
Since I told him in March he has been harrasing me everyday making me feel bad and I get it from his mum too crying on the phone saying their hearts are broken and can’t sleep. I often block the dad and unblock so he can talk but it’s like this all the time now.
I want her to see them still but worry about going back for holiday now and can’t help feeling bad all the time.
Has anyone been through this or similar situation?
It’s so different being in another country so far it’s not like they can visit often and easy.
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