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    Missy21
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    Maybe it’s knowing he’s with his new woman, but just feeling completely alone tonight. Have plenty of friends I could speak to but feel I’m being needy & interfering in their lives. My kids are awesome, but they’re not adult company. Anyone else feel like this? 😔

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    Mum02
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    Yes I am. I have my 2 and I live with my mum but I feel so lonely and lost. My son is 17 and just past his driving test and my daughter is 13 and wants to go out all the time. Do you have any groups you can join.

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    Missy21
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    I have quite an active social life, it’s just the evenings & school holidays when there’s no-one else around & I can’t go anywhere as have the kids.

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    kentmale72
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    yes i agree the evenings are the worse, my two girls spend most of their time in there bedrooms and i am just left to watch the TV, I guess it is a life nobody signed up to.  Paul

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    Robson2732
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    Hi missy yep totally get it single 6 yrs now the thought of meeting someone terrifies me 🙈

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    keepsmiling
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    Yes can feel lonely, usually pretty tired in the evenings after work and battling with my daughter to sleep so not too bothered then but find the weekends difficult. Try to go out lots but I always feel pretty rubbish being around lots of happy families. Guess you have to think that whilst everyone else’s life may appear perfect, it rarely is x

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    Robson2732
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    Yeah least you have work guess I would like to meet family’s I don’t need to pretend too 😊hi

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    45andsingle
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    Hi Missy21 I’ve been alone for a year now and although I have my kids aged 14,18,20 I was married for 21 years so miss having a husband. I definitely don’t want my husband back and I’ve lost my confidence so am not ready to look for someone new either!! I’ve just moved into a new area and in a few weeks my older two will go off to uni. Im forcing myself to join things.. book club, school PA, sports centre- I’m still lonely and to be honest it’s all an effort as I know it’s what I need to do rather than what I want to do. I wish I had friends who were single too as I feel very aware that all my friends are married- which makes me feel even lonelier!!!!

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    seo1869
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    Yes feeling totally alone and have done for the last couple of days.  My kids age 7 and 4 are normal kids bickering playing nicely demanding etc but i feel totally smothered and alone. I just want to cry lots.

    Yes i have friends but again i don’t want to intrude in their lives.

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    roger
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    Hi there yeah i get lonely too

    Espically when my daughters stay with there mother the house is very quiet without them

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    hideandseek
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    Yes i find school holidays hard. my boys are getting more independent, but i still need to be at home for them, its lonely, do have lots of hobbies to fill my time, but its not like talking to adults. I think a lot of parents feel like that, when they are single parents. i try to get out most days going for walks.https://www.hideandseekchildcare.com/

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    Lynn247
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    I find weekends are the most difficult time for me as the children keep me busy during the week and working then it seems everyone else is busy doing their own thing and you are left trying desperately to find something to do or someone who is free to keep you from being bored out of your mind!

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    G.S.7145.P
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    Hi I’ve just joined this site mainly because I’m lonely!! I have a 6 month old girl who i am with 24/7 and love her to pieces, yet I still feel lonely most of the time. I don’t have any friends or family who are single parents, so feel no one understands and like you missy21, I don’t want to seem needy or interfering with their lives.

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    Swifty284
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    I’ve recently seperated from my wife of 10 years but been together for 17 years. The loneliness is horrible, hit the bottle but am trying to stop that before it becomes a habit. Just feel completely upside down at the moment  x my kids keeping me sane but they arent here all the time

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