i am feeling very lonely and scared, I don’t know what to do, my partner wants to see our children but he terrifies me, I want to do what’s right for my children but he intimates me, and what’s worse what I see as a threat others just see as nothing. I want to run and hide.
Mummy3 i wld advise u to keep him away untill he behaves and learns he either treats u with respect who u wont see the kids unless its in a contact centre where u will be supervised. recored and keep record of any intimidating threatening behaviour and say i will go to the police i dont like the way u r acting towards me. it doesn’t matter wot other ppl thnk u find it intimidating so he shld stop if he wont get a retraining order and protection order for ur kids.
yes they shld see their dad but wot example is he giving them- tht is ok to intimidate ok to scare this is how u treat women?
no u r raising them right, stand up to him they r ur babies urs to protect from all tht is wrong in the world even if tht wrong is their dad. stay strong ur NEVER alone xxx
Sometimes it feels as if your suffocating and there’s no where to turn I was happy on my own, my children are doing amazing well and so called professionals keeps saying it would benefit them having a father in their lives but I don’t see how. I will never trust him with them, it took a long time for my little ones nightmares to stop. But it was all mental abuse so it’s my word against his and he knows how to push my buttons, how to control me which frightens me the most. We haven’t seen him for over 2 years, why now? I don’t know what to do, he has a new partner and says he’s changed but in his messages he still gets his remarks in which I know he’s trying to get to me but a judge or policeman looking at them think it’s harmless.
Just don’t know what to do to make him leave us alone
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