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    Toughlove
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    Long story really, I left our home 2.5 years ago.

    my ex moved down to where I did, we did give things ago living together again but I could see we were going to end up back in the rut we were in where I was paying everything so I told him to live somewhere of his own.
    he was using dating apps and speaking with other women which is why I left in the first place.

    anyway he’s always been around and I just made myself very busy.

    I find out now that he’s been sleeping with other women while trying to get back together with me, and during lockdowns.

    he now has settled for this woman who has 8 children, is involved with social services, delivers him weed and sex it would seem.

    we have a child together and I’m very uncomfortable and feel aggrieved that that this has been going on and then he has been having contact with both me and our child in both his house and mine.
    I am high risk and shielding and feel uncomfortable that he is having other people in his home (his support bubble was supposed to be us)

    im tempted to refuse contact but it’s not something I really want to do but I just feel he has no respect for either of us.

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    EmJay
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    Refuse contact then.  Weed is enough of a reason. Covid strengthens it. Emotionally joining a football team of a family is quite a hit for a kid too. How far down in priority are they going to be. Protect your child. Believe your instincts and go as no contact as you can. Move away if you have to.  Your child has rights too.

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