I split from my husband of 22 years, 10 weeks ago. It’s the best thing for me, sick of the lying. The second affair, I threw him out. I feel a weight has lifted and after the initial month of crying and “what have I done?”, I’m genuinely happy and don’t think about him. That is until my kids start talking about him (13 and 18). I’m then angry and annoyed that I should be out with him etc. Is this normal?
I’d say its completely normal! 22 years is hell of a long time, and it’s going to be an emotional and mentally difficult transition to make. Give yourself time to process and grieve the relationship and allow yourself to feel however it is you feel. Theres no right or wrong way to feel