I think it’s a real shame that the forum are no longer closed as they used to be, unfortunately the reality is now that what’s been said here can be picked up by Google.
Saying that, use an alias and don’t give out to many details that can identify you or anyone that your talking about and I’m sure it will be fine. It must be remembered that it’s highly unlikely that no one has gone through whatever situation you in so your posts could be written by anyone.
If your that concerned then read through the different threads, you’ll soon see people who give great advice and are not judgemental such as Kathymumofone(? I think that’s her username) and then message them privately.
Seriously!?! 🙈 I’ve just got it all set up. It’s making me think he really is controlling every part of my life. This is why it’s taken me months to even come on something like this site, but instead of making me feel better it’s set my insecurities sky rocketing. It’s ridiculous and so upsetting