Am i an idiot!

[stu77]

So..a couple of months ago when all this rubbish started we were on holiday, my wife got very drunk and ended up sending a pic, (nothing rude, just in her dress) to another man. She said after that she did it to get some confidence, even tho i have always paid her compliments. Fast forward to yesterday and i happened to come across an ebay reciept, it was for some very..and i mean very sexy underwear, when i saw the delivery address it was to be delivered to the place of work of the man she sent a pic too. She swears nothing is going on! But it just doesnt add up.

[Gingey28]

Wow sounds rough.

[stu77]

I went to my mum n dads to get some space. She then informed me this morning she is moving to her parents. She just changes her story too. It doesnt sound good does it!

[Gingey28]

No unfortunately it doesnt. I cant relate but u wanna rant or talk im here

I have a lot that gets me down but from a different situation but i like to be an ear if people need it

[stu77]

Cheers pal. I mean im not sure. Maybe nothing has happened…..yet. but it was the type of underwear that you defo want to show off. Im just wondering if there is someone in the pipeline so to speak. Guess the next few weeks will give me answers. Right now im just missing my girls.

[Gingey28]

Yes wish i could help, well i can to listen and chat. Why is is like this too many people just dont stay faithful or do things which arouse suspicion. Im not saying that about ur case but hope u can get the truth

[Gingey28]

Never really been ina long term relationship but everyone been with has been unfaithful or they have had a gf while seeing me. Babys dad is a case of the latter. He gets away with cheating cos i never blabbrf to his gf cos i cba. He didnt wanna know  baby told me to get rid but also says im a **** and wasnt his. Cudnt get maintenance cos he fiddled it all in his benefit cos he self employed and shows no income. Hate seeing his van around local and him he just swans around not arsed….whats wrong with ppl

[Simone123]

Hi,

Sounds like your in a tough place atm, all i can say is a deep conversation as to where do you go from here is needed. As nothing is worse than one of you being ready to move on while the other is trying to make things work. As for the cheating all you can do is have trust in your partner, i personally didn’t and thats why my relationship ended, making a person feel untrusted can wreck a relationship. Although you have good reason to think this, and it does seem like something isn’t being said hold fire and stay clear headed. Hopefully you both having space has a positive impact on your relationship. PM me if you ever need to talk, you got this x

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