All alone by myself – new friends or somebody to talk to

[Gintare82]

Hello,

I am first time mum to be. Currently pregnant week 21. I live in Bedford and am completely alone. Please do not feel sorry for me as such things happen. It would be lovely if anybody would like to chat or meet up. Not looking for dating just normal grown ups chat.

[jack]

It sucks being alone.

[Butbyfaith]

It feels hard being alone my heart feels like it’s breaking at times.. and the pain and void is real because you just want someone to share with my faith has been my rock….but maybe we can look at this time and get to know who we really are.. we compromise all that in a relationship to please the other person sometimes… we will find love again but let’s try to love ourselves a bit more… I’m no longer the person I was prior to my marriage breakdown. And I prefer the me I am now.

[Gintare82]

Dear Saddad,

Yes,it is not great but it’s ok. Such things happen. Chin up 😉

[Gintare82]

Dear Butbyfaith,

Glad you found yourself again! Keep it that way just maybe try to relax a bit. Live is already growing lots of challenges – have fun on the way! 👍😉

[Tjadex]

Hey.

Id always be up for a chat. I have found myself recently alone. I have no friends as I cut them all of due to relationship , who has now left me alone at 28 weeks. I struggle aswell. But got to get your chin up and focus on baby and you haven’t you!! Someone who understands would be fab to talk with! X

[Gintare82]

Oh my goodness. I am really sorry. You will be just fine and well said – focus on you and your baby. I have no friends as well, never did as by the time they became my friends they already left 🙈😄😄😄

Do you know who are you having? When is due date?

[jack]

It’s hard when you have know real friends or friends were you partners friends…maybe try and contact old friends you had or try and join some groups or meet ups and you might find some new one’s…when the bady comes you will have baby classes you can go to and meet new mum’s. ..I do hope you do and I know it’s not easy…good luck

[Jim123]

Would love to chat, in a bad place too. By sure how this works but message me if you can.

[Gintare82]

Dear Saddad,

Thank you!

I am looking at antenatal classes but they are really expensive! Gosh! That took me by surprise! Anyhow I will keep looking for other ways to socialise and brake this lonely circle!

I hope you are well!

[jack]

It costs for antenatal classes…what about speaking to your GP or midwife and see if any free ones are avaliable. Tell them you are struggling and need the help. There is a great site called meetup  not sure what area you live in or if available but it is great you can choose activities you enjoy or new things to try. If it gets you out the house and socialising then its a good thing.

[Gintare82]

Morning Jim,

I hope you are well.

[Fionamae]

Hey, also looking for grown up chats not seedy adult convos lol! I hope your ok, I’m only in Leicester if you want to chat at any point. It’s hard being pregnant with all the emotions too. And hard to reach out to people. X

[Gintare82]

Hello,

Thank you x that would be great!x

I will send you private message, I hope that’s ok x

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