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    parenting42
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    hi.

    Can anyone please advice me on how to deal with a father who has Narcissistic Personality Disorder.

    This man keeps on taking me to court because he refuses all allegations made against him. All allegations are evidence, but somehow this man has turned the court to believe him. He is constantly playing mind games.

    I would be so grateful if someone could steer me in the right direction for help.

    Thank you. Xx

    #18598 Report

    Hi there.  It sounds as if you are going through a difficult time currently.  I’m pleased you are using the forum to make connections with other parents.  It can be a useful way of gaining support.  Also your experience may help other people through their own issues.  With regards to the issue you are talking about..have you considered contacting our single parent helpline?  We have a group of very advisers who may be able to offer suggestions or point you in the direction of support that could be relevant for you.  Their number is 0808 802 0925 and the opening times of the helpline can be found here.   https://www.gingerbread.org.uk/what-we-do/contact-us/helpline/  They are very much in demand, so expect to wait about 20 minutes before you get through, but I’m hoping they can provide you with the right information.

    Wishing you the best with working towards a solution.

    GingerbreadJustine

     

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    parenting42
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    Thank you gingerbreadjustine. I will certainly give the single parent helpline a call.

    Xx

    #24447 Report

    Kelly 2879
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    Hiya, I believe my ex partner was narcissistic. He was controlling, humiliating to me, demanding, no one else in the world mattered except him. Now we are separated he still tries to control what he can, when he sees his son, how I do things, my opinions of parenting.

    I was never able to prove his emotional abuse to me, but have written everything down. I think I have ptsd, because sometimes I find myself doing things as if he still lived here panicking, constantly commentating to baby what I’m doing, planning everything precisely. I am on a waiting list for counselling.

    Hope you got things sorted out x

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    nic1986
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    Ive dealt with much the same with my ex many years now. Bullying, manipulative, controlling, Only happy when he gets his own way and tries 2 control when he sees his son even tho a big portion of the time he doesnt pay maintenance.

    Im currently going through court to set out contact + hope 2 get ex of my back.

    The mind games and the lies they spread are horrible (im going thru this rite now) to somehow make thereself better its funny reli.

    I reli struggled not knowing what way 2 turn at the time as didnt know of this site so best of luck to u ☺

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