10 August 2021 at 12:59 am #57400
10 August 2021 at 9:54 am #57401
<li style=”text-align: left;”>That must have been a hard call to make, I’m so hoping that involving the police might trigger some help from somewhere… I know you were saying that psychology service doesn’t believe how bad things are, maybe the police being involved might help in that regard… I can understand how exhausting all this is… Maybe keep asking for help, keep making noise about it… Is there anyone like a gp or something that help get supports for you….
The police have been called out many times it doesn’t make a difference. Noone seems to understand how much it hurts that my 16 year old can be like this. It left me so broken I can’t see the point of carrying on. Thanks for all your advice10 August 2021 at 11:09 am #57403
hi, sounds terrible. did the father vanish? would have been great help if he spent time with them.10 August 2021 at 11:48 am #57409
My 16 year old has never met her father and the boys dad is not around at the mo due to my son saying he had hurt them so I’m on my own10 August 2021 at 2:58 pm #57416
I wish there was more I could do/say, I feel kinda useless and it doesn’t seem right no one will help…10 August 2021 at 11:55 pm #57444
How has today been?11 August 2021 at 5:38 pm #57460
These last 2 days have been horrible, I’m so tired of the violence I’m still waiting on the police coming out from the incident on Monday. Adhd nurse was meant to phone me and hasn’t. I phoned the mental helpline at 4am this morning because I wanted to just go and I was meant to get a phone call from community mental health which I haven’t. I’m sick and tired of chasing people to try and get help for us I’m not doing it no more. I’m done with it all can’t carry on like this as I’m just not coping11 August 2021 at 10:41 pm #57467
I know its really hard but hopefully you’re close to getting help, and the help could make all the difference. I know it’s easy for me to say and you shouldn’t have to have to be chasing people like this, it’s so wrong but hang in there11 August 2021 at 10:43 pm #57468
Hope you’re OK…. Wish there was more I could do….11 August 2021 at 10:56 pm #57469
I can’t do it no more I’m done I’m a complete mess thanks for everything but I’m coming off forums etc I don’t want to upset people or make anyone worry13 August 2021 at 7:43 pm #57506
Hey there, how are you?16 August 2021 at 10:54 am #57556
Hello Kazob 79 – my name is Sandra and I am one of the moderators. Just to reiterate some of the messages of support from others. It is really important you get help and support.
YoungMinds are one of the best places to get advice about the violence from your children. They have a 2 tier helpline and can set up a call with a mental health professional who specialises in young people. They can give you advice and coping strategies to manage the behaviours you are seeing, and if no one is helping you they can also escalate to children’s services if that would be required. I would recommend they are worth speaking to. Their number is 0808 802 5544
Sandra16 August 2021 at 3:02 pm #57559
Young minds won’t help, social are involved but nothing seems to be happening so I’m basically on my own dealing with everything as well as stopping myself ending my life this is why I’m not coming on here etc anymore noone wants to help me or my kids so no point to life16 August 2021 at 8:51 pm #57561
I know it’s easy for me to say but help will come … Light always the follows the darkness, and I know not there right beside you but here any night you want a rant, an offload or chat or talk about whatever you want….16 August 2021 at 8:52 pm #57562
There’s always someone at end of of the phone too, they want to help you, like samaritans for example, they will listen….